Having a healthy relationship is like having a healthy diet. When you’re not living it healthy then it might get worst and you might end up breaking up with each other. Relationship needs to have a fire to keep it flaming, igniting, more passionate. Without it, things will go to waste, especially when too much emotions are invested.
So how to see the signs that both of your partner need to acknowledge to maintain the happiness between you and even with the people around you?
Keep the positivity flowing. It should not be ebbing. And I believe these signs will give you much consideration to sustain the relationship.
#1 You and your partner have goals and dreams that you both share.
What’s the point of having a relationship if you can’t even share it to your partner? Your success is his/her success. Your an asshole if your just thinking about yourself.
“Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow.”— Swedish Proverb
#2 Relationship fights are still there.
If you don’t fight anymore with your partner it means that your relationship is very unhealthy. Relationship challenges are not there anymore. When you and your partner always fight with each other, you guys are building strength in your relationship most especially when you both learned from what you have fought.
“Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it.”– William James
“You don’t develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity.”— Epicurus
#3 He or She stays with you even if you have a badass attitude.
Your a survivor if you still love him/her even if he/she has that badass attitude. Who can withstand that? I salute you for being patient to your partner. KEEP THAT LOVE BURNING!!!!!!!
“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”– Carl Jung
#4 You can’t sleep without him/her beside.
Insomnia Attack!!!! Your not used to it am i right? Make sure to make coffee in the morning cause its going to be a long day ahead!
“Never above you. Never below you. Always beside you. ” – Walter Winchell
#5 You both have a weird and a unique things to do.
Well relationships are too boring are if you don’t have any weird stuff to do. Example, you both call each other those crazy names when your alone with each other. Next example, you both should greet happy 11:11 when the clocks strikes at 11:11 am and 11:11 pm everyday. How weird and unique is that?
“Couples do weird stuff often, it’s natural.” ― UNKNOWN
#6 Both you and your partner are mature.
when there is maturity, there is understanding. And in understanding comes with care and love follows then.
“Immature love says: ‘I love you because I need you.’ Mature love says ‘I need you because I love you.” ― Erich Fromm
#7 No one should eat alone.
You don’t have that appetite with you eat alone. Who doesn’t want to eat together with his/her partner? It’s to boring to eat alone unless your a loner. Are you a loner?
“Sharing food with another human being is an intimate act that should not be indulged in lightly.” ― M.F.K. Fisher
#8 You both start your day together and end together.
When you both wake up together to start your day and say good morning to each other with that morning breath. And you both end the day together and say good night before you go to sleep and of course you say Dream Of Me before sleeping. CORNY!!!
“If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.” – African Proverb
#9 Being a kid sometimes.
Who doesn’t want to be a kid again? When you and your partner enjoys acting like a kid and your just having fun isn’t that cute?
“You can be childlike without being childish. A child always wants to have fun. Ask yourself, ‘Am I having fun?'” – Christopher Meloni
SEX, SEX, AND SEX
What’s wrong with sex? i mean if your partner doesn’t want to have sex with you. I have 2 reason why he/she won’t. First reason is he/she had a long day and he/she is exhausted from his/her work.
Second is he/she is having sex with someone else( i think this one is really worst than the first reason).
“Sex is emotion in motion.” ― Mae West